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The first trip to the quest is an important and exciting event in the life of the child. This is not just a game, but a whole adventure in which you need to make decisions, interact with other participants, find clues and overcome difficulties. For children, this is a new experience: emotional, intellectual and social. But in order for the acquaintance with the quests to become positive, and not stressful, it is important to properly prepare the child.
Parents play a key role in this process. From how you tell about the quest, how you choose the right scenario and how to support the child before, during and after the game, its impression largely depends. In this article, we will consider how to help the child adapt to a new format, not be afraid and get real pleasure from participation.
What is a quest and why does a child need it?
You need to start from the most important thing — an explanation of what a quest is. For a child, this word can be abstract or associated only with computer games. The task of the parent — Form the correct expectation And configure the positive.
How to explain the essence of the quest for the child:
- This is an adventure with tasks
Tell us that he will become the hero of the story in which you need to look for hints, solve riddles, find objects and move to victory. - This is a team game
Emphasize that he will play not alone, but with friends or other children, and everyone will help each other. - It’s safe and fun
Be sure to emphasize that no one will scream, scare or punish for errors. Everything is under the control of the host, and adults are nearby. - You can make mistakes and not know the answer
This is normal-not to know something or not to solve the problem the first time. The main thing is to try and not give up. - This is not a competition, but a story
It is important to convey that the quest is not an “exam” where they put grades for something, but rather as a film in which the child participates personally.
If a child is over 5 years old, you can watch a short video about quests together or show photos from previous events. For kids, use a comparison with cartoons: «It’s like in a fairy tale, where you are the main character and help friends to defeat the villain.»
How to choose a suitable quest: attention to the plot and level
The choice of the first quest is a key step. A mistake in the selection of complexity or subjects can completely ruin the impression of participation. Therefore, focus not on advertising or “what others have chosen”, but on the features of your child.
What to consider:
- Age and psycho -emotional development
Some children at 6 are ready for logical tasks, others in 8 are afraid of darkness. Choose a quest not only by passport age, but also in the perception of the world. - Theme
The plot should be clear, not scared and be interesting. Fairy tales, fantasy stories, treasure search is an ideal choice for the first experience. - The complexity of tasks
It is better if the quest is simple, visual or motor tasks. Too many logic or numbers can cause frustration. - The presence of the presenter
Make sure that the quest is leading an experienced animator who knows how to work with children, adapt the game along the way and prompt in time. - Format (open/closed, individual/command)
The first quest is better to take place in a small group of friends or familiar children. This reduces stress and increases comfort.
A great choice for the first acquaintance with quests is quests specially adapted for children of different ages:
- “Baba Yaga” is a fabulous quest where you need to get out of the hut until the witch return.
- The Witch’s House is a story with a magic gingerbread house and a good intrigue.
- “Musketeers” — an adventure based on stories about the queen and cardinal, with the search for pendants.
- The Damned Hunnar hut is a mythological mission for older children.
- “Mafia’s lair” and “poltergeist” — for adolescents, with elements of a detective and mysticism.
When conducting such quests, everything is thought out to the smallest detail Oreeshekclub: a warm atmosphere, supporting leading, adaptation of scripts for a specific group and the opportunity to celebrate a birthday in one place with a game, refreshments and photos.
How to deal with the fears and uncertainty of the child
Even if the child shows interest, fear of new ones — this is normal. Nervousness, tears, refusal — a possible reaction to the first unknown situation. The task of the adult — Do not crushand support.
Tips on how to help:
- Speak the script in advance
Tell us what will happen: first the host will meet you, then you will get into the room with riddles, all together you will look for the keys and win at the end. - Use familiar associations
“Remember how you were looking for treasures from your grandmother in the country? It will be like here! » — It helps to reduce anxiety. - Support at the start
If possible, go into the room with the child. Even a few minutes in the presence of the parent will help you feel more confident. - Encourage, not evaluate
After the quest, do not analyze what he did wrong. Focus on what happened, and how cool he coped. - Don’t insist if you categorically don’t want
Sometimes children are simply not ready. It is better to postpone the campaign for a couple of months than to “turn over” through force and cause rejection. - Discuss your feelings after the game
Ask what I remember what you liked, what was not clear. This will help to form a positive memory and consolidate the experience. -
Team support
If the child goes to the quest with friends, discuss in advance that everyone will help each other and no one will stand aside.
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